Tuesday, September 16, 2008
the littlest things
Sometimes, people think that you are over reacting-- that you're making a big deal about those little things...
What they don't understand is that its those little things?They are so destructive in a relationship- it doesn't matter if it's a relationship with the opposite sex or your friend or your siblings or whoever..
These little things starts to pile up such that it creates a wall eventually... an obstacle in the relationship such that one day, you just blow up... you can't take another one of those little things..
It's better to have a big problem rather than have that wall in your relationship..
You see, those little things, as you ignore them (tell yourself: never mind, its okay..just let it pass), the more permanent it gets...
Atleast if its a big problem, you can't let it pass by...you are going to try to solve it as quickly as you can...
I don't really know how to explain..but it's harder to "fix"...
Another thing is liars..hypocrites..backstabbers.all those stuff...
Let's face it.. we all lie...
Even if we only did once..
A lie is still a lie..
It doesn't matter if its a white lie or whatever...
The lie is still there..
I guess a white lie is still okay..
But lying and twisting the story???
That's being bitchy...
Especially when you do behind the person's back...
I hate liars...
But I gotta say... some of them amazed me though..
How natural lying is to them..
It's like they don't even plan to do it... lies just come out of their mouth...
Labels: friends, liars, life, school
I LOVE YOU 9/16/2008 06:23:00 PM